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Created on 2007-09-15 14:13:43 (#13823528), last updated 2009-11-15
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Basic Info| Name: | aboynamedyes |
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| Birthdate: | 1977 |
| Location: | New York, United States |
BioNikki the investor
(6/4/08)
11:42:37 AM thelovelynikki: I love you, puppy.
11:42:40 AM thelovelynikki: Always remember that.
Nikki as she really is, when not on guard to plot out every syllable 5 years in advance:
"Ooooohhhh I'M so upset right now I think I'll cut myself or run into traffic! Oh, wait
that's what YOU do isn't it?"
So lets get real. Everything you and I need to know about how she truly feels about me can be seen at:
http://aboynamedyes.livejournal.com/61554.html
As for what she wants:
Of course that wasn't all she wanted: here's the exchange that tells the world who thelovelynikki is and what she truly seeks:
(After being offline for months)
"i miss you my OWNER."
"Good. Keep missing ME."
Make of that what you will.
More specifically, here are some tips for those contacting dommes, especially financial dommes online:
1. Understand from the get go that the only thing that matters to 99.99999% of these women is your money. Call it a tribute, a gift, a sacrifice, a show of devotion, whatever, its all about ben franklin. This is a business.
1a. That's not to say its all bad. Since your money rules, you rule. You can be the most worthless specimen on the planet, the biggest degenerate, and for just a few bucks, you too can have a shot at neing the "best" or being "loved". Just don't forget that I used quotes there for a reason.
1b. Since this is an investment tool for most women, they guard their assets (that's you) zealously. "Cheating"- that is spending cash on another woman- is the worst thing you can do in their eyes. Second worst is not spending money on them.
2. This is not real. Most online subs have wives, kids, girlfriends, etc and seek a(n almost exclusively sexual) release online. Likewise, most dommes look at this in strictly financial terms. Emotional attachment is a definite no-no.
3. What you say matters much more than what you do. Most of you will never meet each other. Most of you wont even tell each other your names. [Kooky/phony blackmail schemes aside]. And so, saying the right things counts a lot more than doing them. A specific example: "thelovelynikki" once punished me by telling me to "sleep nacked in the corner" because i told her that I looked at another woman. So I slept there but with a blanket. When I told her this, she went psycho. It would have been MUCH easier to just say "Completed my punishment. Thank YOU."
4. Forget about commitment. I don't care what is said, I don't care if there is talk of collars or slaveregister.com or moving in and sleeping in her room. If none of this is real (see rule 1) then that talk is not real either.
5. As in real life, not knowing a damn thing about someone is no barrier to judging them. If you present yourself as "a bitch" you will be seen that way. Ditto if you present yourself as a "loser."
5a. Even if you don't present yourself that way, people will seek to judge you as such. The internet is filled with people- just as life is- who seek to make themselves feel better by making others feel worse.
6. Some subs have a tendency to think "awww She is not that bad." or "I can treat her with love and respect and she won't be that way towards me." No. Take these women at face value. If they talk about what maggots you are and how you all bore her and how she is only in it for the money- essentially 99% of the women here- then proceed with caution, even if she says that you are somehow different.
Now ladies, I have not forgotten you either and for you I'll just boil it down to 3.
1. You can't make someone do something for you. You can only persuade someone to want to do something for you.
2. Just as women don't change, neither do men. "Training" can only be done by tapping into a man's natural desire to please. If that desire isn't there you're wasting your time.
3. Love and devotion takes time and commitment. Those not willing to nurture it don't deserve it.
TheLovely Nikki (2/19/2008 10:47:52 PM): Is that all you can say? Anyone can say "i'm sorry" but few can show it. SHE is right. Not just about apologies but submission and life in general. Show me. Show HER.
(6/4/08)
11:42:37 AM thelovelynikki: I love you, puppy.
11:42:40 AM thelovelynikki: Always remember that.
Nikki as she really is, when not on guard to plot out every syllable 5 years in advance:
"Ooooohhhh I'M so upset right now I think I'll cut myself or run into traffic! Oh, wait
that's what YOU do isn't it?"
So lets get real. Everything you and I need to know about how she truly feels about me can be seen at:
http://aboynamedyes.livejournal.com/61554.html
As for what she wants:
Of course that wasn't all she wanted: here's the exchange that tells the world who thelovelynikki is and what she truly seeks:
(After being offline for months)
"i miss you my OWNER."
"Good. Keep missing ME."
Make of that what you will.
More specifically, here are some tips for those contacting dommes, especially financial dommes online:
1. Understand from the get go that the only thing that matters to 99.99999% of these women is your money. Call it a tribute, a gift, a sacrifice, a show of devotion, whatever, its all about ben franklin. This is a business.
1a. That's not to say its all bad. Since your money rules, you rule. You can be the most worthless specimen on the planet, the biggest degenerate, and for just a few bucks, you too can have a shot at neing the "best" or being "loved". Just don't forget that I used quotes there for a reason.
1b. Since this is an investment tool for most women, they guard their assets (that's you) zealously. "Cheating"- that is spending cash on another woman- is the worst thing you can do in their eyes. Second worst is not spending money on them.
2. This is not real. Most online subs have wives, kids, girlfriends, etc and seek a(n almost exclusively sexual) release online. Likewise, most dommes look at this in strictly financial terms. Emotional attachment is a definite no-no.
3. What you say matters much more than what you do. Most of you will never meet each other. Most of you wont even tell each other your names. [Kooky/phony blackmail schemes aside]. And so, saying the right things counts a lot more than doing them. A specific example: "thelovelynikki" once punished me by telling me to "sleep nacked in the corner" because i told her that I looked at another woman. So I slept there but with a blanket. When I told her this, she went psycho. It would have been MUCH easier to just say "Completed my punishment. Thank YOU."
4. Forget about commitment. I don't care what is said, I don't care if there is talk of collars or slaveregister.com or moving in and sleeping in her room. If none of this is real (see rule 1) then that talk is not real either.
5. As in real life, not knowing a damn thing about someone is no barrier to judging them. If you present yourself as "a bitch" you will be seen that way. Ditto if you present yourself as a "loser."
5a. Even if you don't present yourself that way, people will seek to judge you as such. The internet is filled with people- just as life is- who seek to make themselves feel better by making others feel worse.
6. Some subs have a tendency to think "awww She is not that bad." or "I can treat her with love and respect and she won't be that way towards me." No. Take these women at face value. If they talk about what maggots you are and how you all bore her and how she is only in it for the money- essentially 99% of the women here- then proceed with caution, even if she says that you are somehow different.
Now ladies, I have not forgotten you either and for you I'll just boil it down to 3.
1. You can't make someone do something for you. You can only persuade someone to want to do something for you.
2. Just as women don't change, neither do men. "Training" can only be done by tapping into a man's natural desire to please. If that desire isn't there you're wasting your time.
3. Love and devotion takes time and commitment. Those not willing to nurture it don't deserve it.
TheLovely Nikki (2/19/2008 10:47:52 PM): Is that all you can say? Anyone can say "i'm sorry" but few can show it. SHE is right. Not just about apologies but submission and life in general. Show me. Show HER.
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